the flinch

You don't know anyone at the party, so you don't want to go. You don't like something, so you haven't eaten it in years. This is your choice, of course, but don't kid yourself: it's also the flinch.

Your personality is not set in stone. You may think a morning coffee is the most enjoyable thing in the world, but it's really just a habit. Thirty days without it, and you would be fine. You would have evolved differently, but been just as happy. You can change what you want about yourself at any time. You see yourself as someone who can't write or play an instrument, who gives in to temptation or makes bad decisions, but that's really not you. It's not ingrained. It's not your personality. Your personality is something else, something deeper than just preferences, and these details on the surface, you can change anytime you like. If it is useful to do so, you must abandon your identity and start again. Sometimes, it's the only way.

There is absolutely NOTHING you can’t do, think about it; Nobody was born great, its their hunger and drive that made them great, alexander was just another man, it’s his sheer will that made him conquer eastern Mediterranean, Egypt, the Middle East, and parts of Asia in a remarkably short period of time.

You're just conditioned to think in limitations, locking yourself in a cage built from outdated societal expectations and your own self-doubt. the key to unlocking it lies in embracing chaos as your closest ally, reshaping it into a tool that carves out paths where none seemed to exist. Break the locks, harness the storm within you, and let it propel you into realms of possibility that defy conventional wisdom. only then will you truly transcend limits.

Wear your ambition like a second skin, act as if you are already where you want to be. The entirety of human knowledge is at your fingertips. there's no skill you can't master, no subject you can't learn, no boundary you can't push. break free, start today, and watch as the world molds itself around your will.

Forge your path by learning on the go, because every expert was once a beginner who just started. Don't wait for permission or perfect readiness. Dive in, get messy, make mistakes, and grow. Knowledge isn't just acquired in classrooms; it's built through experiences, failures, and the relentless pursuit of curiosity. The only limits that truly exist are the ones we impose on ourselves.

to greatness!